Music as a Love Language: Sending Songs to Your Dating App Matches

Illustration by Keylee Baque

So… you matched with a cutie on a dating app but can’t think of an opening line? No worries – here is a list of songs to send to your match based on the types of people notably featured on dating apps! Disclaimer: these songs might make you… feel something. 

Just moved to Austin 

It feels like every new match just moved to town. If you matched with someone looking for a tour guide to show them around the music capital of the world, send them one of these songs that mention the great city of Austin. You can also follow up by inviting your match to a fun “Austin” activity like kayaking or bat-watching at the Congress Avenue Bridge!

1. “Texas” – Magic Man 

2. “ATX” – All Get Out 

3. “Camping” (alternate) – Worst Party Ever 


The match that keeps coming back 

We all have that one match that we see and swipe on every time we delete and redownload the apps. Maybe you exchanged a few messages right before dating someone who didn’t work out and now you’ve got a second chance! Hit them with these songs and finally plan that first date. 

1. “Fallback Lover” – Summer Wars 

2. “Now or Never” – Meet me @ the Altar 

3. “At the End of the Day” – Wallows 


Has a few photos hiking 

You’re bound to come across someone who is outdoorsy and planning for their next adventure hiking, kayaking or camping. And who doesn’t love a good road trip? Help your match make the perfect playlist by sending one of these dreamy songs that’s perfect for the road or chilling by a campfire. 

1. “Satellite” – Guster 

2. “Dirt” – Suburban Living 

3. “Passenger Side” – Smallpools 

4. “Till Sunrise” – Goldroom/Mammals 


Their profile just talks about food 

For every swipe, there are always a few profiles that mention tacos. Just like sharing songs, sharing food is also a love language. After you and your match compare favorite foods, send one of these songs and suggest a recipe you can cook together for a future date. 

1. “Dissolve Me” – Alt-J

2. “SOURDOUGHSTARTER” – Bilmuri 

3. “Sweet Tooth” – Cavetown 


Potentially the love of your life

You’ve swiped on your ideal type and they’re checking all the boxes. If you want to be bold, send them one of these songs and watch the sparks fly. You never know, maybe it’ll finally be time to delete dating apps for good! 

1. “Fall in Love Tonight” – Chris Farren 

2. “Kiss Me, Kill Me” – La Bouquet

3. “Cutie” – Coin

I am an Austin-based photographer and social media manager. My love for photography started in high school which lead me to study communications at Texas Tech University and The University of the Incarnate Word. Aside from my love for photography and live music, I enjoy spinning vinyl, kayaking, biking, and chilling with my cat, Petrie.